Clayton was born in Istanbul, Turkey in 1960. He grew up in Maryland, and has lived in Alexandria for the past 16 years. His life is marked by a strong work ethic, a positive attitude in all that he did, a passion for life, a loyal heart, an infectious laugh, a great appreciation for friends, a love for family, and above all, an endless love and devotion to his wife Sandy and his daughter Kirsten.Clayton was diagnosed with cancer in the fall of last year, and fought valiantly from that time until his battle was ultimately lost. Throughout late fall and winter, Clayton spent a great deal of time at Georgetown Hospital, where he was attended to by a tremendous team of physicians and nursing staff. He spent a brief time at Woodbine Nursing Home in February, before being moved to his father Roy Parker?s home in LaPlata, Maryland. There, Clayton was lovingly cared for by his father and his father?s wife Lois, and also by Sandy, Kirsten and Hospice. Throughout his illness, Clayton?s sisters were often at his bedside. Since Clayton?s diagnosis, Sandy and Kirsten have cared tirelessly for Clayton, never resting, and truly cherishing every moment that they had with their husband and father.Clayton?s final moments came peacefully at approximately 3:00 am on April 4th, while in his father?s home. Clayton is survived by his wife, Sandy Cariffe Parker and by his daughter, Kirsten Allie Parker, both of Alexandria, Virginia. He is also survived by his father, Roy Parker and his wife, Lois Parker; his father Ken Olson and his wife Terry Olson; his mother Mayda Butler and her husband Paul Butler; his sisters Laura Hudson and Deanna McWilliams; his brothers Chris Olson and Erik Olson.On April 7, 2011, Clayton?s family will receive guests at 2:00 pm, with a funeral service following at 3:00 pm, both at the Belle Haven Country Club, located at 6023 Fort Hunt Road, Alexandria, Virginia. In lieu of flowers, contributions are being accepted for the KIRSTEN PARKER EDUCATIONAL TRUST. Donations can be made at any Capital One banking institution. Clayton will be deeply missed. As sad as this occasion is, we know that Clayton would want everyone to live fully and completely and to celebrate his memory by doing so.
I just found out about Clayton’s passing. I am devastated to know he left the world early. I have been trying for some time to return his one and only baby picture to him. If someone happens to read this so long after his passing, please contact me. I dated Clayton in the 80’s and lived in Champaign/Urbana IL.
My deepest condolences for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your sweet loving famly.
I met Clayton a few years ago through a client and counted him as a friend-my heart was saddened but I know Clayton is now at peace
To see a young man fight so courageously, yet lose his battle, is heartbreaking to all left behind. It was obvious how much Clayton loved Sandy, his precious Kirsten, and entire family. We send our most sincere sympathy to all of them and hope that the beautiful memories you have of him will fill your hearts and minds and bring you comfort. Through these memories and lessons learned from him, he will continue to live on in each of you.
Clayton was an incredible person. He had unrivaled generosity, a true passion for life and an immense amount of love for Sandy and Kirsten. I am truly heart-broken for each and every member of the Parker, Butler and Olson family. I will always cherish the memories I have of fun times I have had with Clayton.
Sandy and Kirsten, We are so sorry for your loss. Clayton was way too young to go. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. With Sincere Sympathy, Betty and Bob Wood
My sincere sympathy to Sandy, Kirsten and Clayton’s entire family.
Heartfelt Sympathy and condolences to Sandy and Kirsten and Clayton’s family members. You have all fought a courageous battle. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
My sympathy to the family during your time of grief.
Knowledgable mortgage banker second to none, exuded confidence in his business dealings with integrity, transparency and the will helping his clients and realtors alike. Little space here to mention all posisitive attributes bestowed Clayton. Professional, gentleman, sense of humor and fortright honesty. Business acumen notwithstanding, in my opinion Clayton will always be remembered for his love of family, appreciation for a tasteful life style and the ability to reach out to others and help. Clayton will surely be missed.
It was with great sadness I learned of Clayton’s passing. My deepest condolences to his wife and daughter. May GOD continue to bless you and keep you through this sad time.
Clayton will be dearly missed by everyone. My prayers go to Sandy, his daughter and his family.
Sandy,
My heart sends condolences to Clayton, his immediate family and professional family. It was a pleasure for me to have known him. He will be missed.
Our heartfelt wishes of comfort for the Parker family are being sent to you today. Clayton and I were very close in our high school years and for many years thereafter. We spent alot of time with each other and each others families. Those times remain some of my fondest memories and result in most of the funny stories I still tell today. Sadly, as happens more often than not, our lives took us in different directions and we lost touch over the years. However, I will always remember the friendship and good times!! we shared. The world has truly lost a fine man and we pray that God watches over his family. You will be missed my friend. Love you bro – Tony and Tish McClure.
Deanna and all the family:
So sorry for your loss. I have know Clayton for many years. God Bless.
My acquaintances in the mortgage business have been many. My true friends have been few. Clayton was always a true friend to me, and we shared a whole lot of laughs over the years. He will be missed.
To the family of Clayton Parker My sincere heart felt sympathy for your loss of a love one. Clayton was my go to lender he always came through! The struggle is over celebrate his legacy. May he rest in Peace.
I met Clayton several years after becoming a real estate agent 28+ years ago. I referred many of my buyers to Clayton cause I knew once he pre-approved my buyers I had nothing to worry about as far as the loan process. I used him personally & my family. My deepest sympathy to his wife & daugter, although I never had the opportunity to meet you, he spoke of you 2 everytime we talked, he loved you’ll dearly. I will miss the best loan officer I know.
Clayton was a great person and Mortgage Officer. He will truly be missed.
The few times I shared with Clayton Parker as a collegue in real estate revealed a strong yet kind personality that every business man cherished. We will all miss Clayton in Real Estate. Fairwell good friend and may your sould rest in the PEACE!
Dear Sandy, Kirsten & Clayton’s families,
I was devestated to hear of Clayton’s passing. My heart and prayers go out to his personal and professional family. I will truly miss Clayton and our business relationship we developed over the past four years. He was truly one of a kind and gave excellent customer service as a mortgage company. May God give his wife and daughter the strength needed to endure this difficult time and loss.
Sandy, please accept my deepest sympathies during this difficult time. Although I did not know your husband, it appears he was a great guy and will be missed greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Carla
To the Parker family and friends,
My deepest sympathies to Claytons family as you mourn the loss of your father,son , brother and loved one. I was a colleague of Clayton in the mortgage industry. We were friendly competitors and he was always a great guy to talk to. I as well as many of us in the business will miss him. GOD Bless you all. Vince Roberts.
To the family: Clayton was my lender as a Realtor and the lender that got me into my home. He had a passion to help people. His kindness and love of people and what he did will be missed. Our prayers are with you through this difficult time.
To the Family. Clayton will be missed. He was my lender as Realtor and the lender that helped us purchase our home. He had a passion for people. He will be missed. Our prayers are with you.
Much too young to be called away from us. May he rest in peace. God bless Clayton and his family.
Our most sincere sympathy to the entire family.
My deepest sympathy and prayers to Clayton’s family. Yes he will be missed.
Clayton was a very dear friend. We lived three doors from Clayton, Sandy and Kirsten for 2 1/2 years at Kings Cloister. Clayton always said if the garage door was open, it was party time. Several times we stopped by very late in the evening on our way home from an evening out. One particular evening we stopped by, Ken and Terry were visiting. Clayton invited us in, poured us a glass of wine and and disappeared. We realized he had gone up to bed. Charlie and I sat with Ken and Terry for quite awhile just chatting. We truly enjoyed our times with Clayton, Sandy and Kirsten. We spent a wonderful Mother’s Day with Clayton, Sandy, Kirsten, Ken, Terry, our son and his family at Belle Haven. Clayton you were one of kind–a real gem!
We extend our deepest sympathy to the Parker family. We will truly miss Mr. Parker at tax time every year. To Mrs. Parker and the children we send our prayers.
Sandy, Kirsten – I am truly at a loss for words. My heart is broken, and never thought this could happen to a man I loved so much. Even though we have not seen each other for many years, I will always remember his love for life, and that laugh!!!! I will cherish the years we spend in HS and the years we both first got married. May God Bless you both.
Sandy and Kirsten,
I grew up next door to the Parkers,Clayton and his family were always kind and thoughtful. I remembe he was always smiling and had kind words for me. My family and I are sadden by the new of his passing. Our prayers go out to Laura, Deanna, and Mr Parker and Ms. Mayda…and his daughter and wife….Sincerly Terri Buskey Perkins and the Buskey family
My thoughts & prayers are with Clayton’s family during this time.
Dear Sandy and Kristen,
My daughter Diaddy worked for Clayton at FGMC. I am truly sorry for your loss. May God grant you peace and serenity through this difficult time. Clayton earned his wings, and will be watching over his family from heavens.
Clayton, you will be missed! I will always remember your positive attitude and your consistent smile. I will always see you in your beautiful daughter, Kirsten. And I’ll take good care of Sandy. I love you.
May the Lord receives his soul in peace.
Please accept our deepest sympathies. My heart aches for the family.
I was deeply sadden when I got the news about Clayton. I had the Pleasure of working for Clayton and he will be truly missed. Kirsten your dad was a great guy. And I will keep you and your mom in my prayers, God Bless You !
I am so happy I got to know Clayton and so sad that he is no longer with us. He was my first boss at FGMC and he did so many wonderful things for me at a young age coming into the mortgage business. Clayton will be greatly missed by so many people. The family is in my prayers.
Wow, Clayton will truly be missed…he lived the motto “Customer Service is an Attitude” not a department.
Our deepest condolence goes out to the Parker family. We worked with Clayton on real estate deals here in Atlanta. It was truly a pleasure to know this man of great knowledge, integrity, and authenticity. Thank you for sharing him with us. May God begin to heal your heart and bring you peace. He will be missed.
My love for you and your family . Clayton was a exceptional loving husband , father and friend. I always saw this in him . He will be missed . I will always remember his beautiful and warm smile . My thoughts are with you and Kirsten . Love , Liz